Shortly after I went back home, I got a 7-day Labor Day holiday, and two wedding ceremonies. Cheers! Awesome, hum? It seems that it is the time for us to get married, cause recently, a lot of my friends got married. Last month, one of my best friends from high school got married, and another two friends got married on May.3rd, and 4th separately. I attended these two ceremonies, one was in the church, completely western way and romantic; the other was in the hotel, half western and half Chinese. Before that, I never attended wedding ceremony for my friends, mostly for my cousins, relatives. Friend's wedding is different, because you could feel you are part of it. and fully share the happiness with them. You could see their lovely happy faces, which is so cute.
The atmosphere at the wedding ceremony influenced me a lot. I did want to get married when I saw the bride walked towards the groom, especially when the groom made the commitment to his bride, promising to take care of her and love her all of his life. I was touched when he said so. I always thought I was not a traditional person, and didn't care marriage that much as long as I had a stable relationship, but it seems not the case now. Marriage needs enough courage, responsibility, and love for both people finally get together and make their serious commitment, which is not an easy thing. Boyfriend could give you the love you need, but he would never give you that kind of commitment. Just as one of my friends told me about husband "He may not be the best one, but he is the one for you." Oh, well, I guess I get a little bit affected by those continuous wedding ceremonies, so if you are not sure whether you want a marriage or not, just go to attend a wedding ceremony, you will find the answer. Pictures will come out soon!
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结婚的人愿意把自己的幸福和喜悦传递给所有的亲朋好友,参加婚礼的人也愿意分享新人的甜蜜和永恒。如此感性的文字,代表着如此悸动的心情,或许我们真的是到了婚龄,也或许是我们真的遇到了“the one for us”,但不管源于何种理由,只有两人在一起能互相包容,相依相恋,彼此呵护,其他的一切都不足以成为阻绊。恋爱的季节,牵红线的天使,向我的朋友们张开了广阔的翅膀……
看了楼上的话,觉得新婚的果然不同!
文字里那种幸福感都要溢出来了!
总是记得那时候在US的时候,看一部关于婚姻的肥皂剧叫"to have, to hold"。其实,那时小小的年纪连感情都不太明白,何况婚姻。但是就这个名字,就能感觉婚姻是……说不清!这好像是结婚誓词里的话。
cy
楼上的太扎实了,连一楼的是上个月刚结婚还沉静在新婚的喜悦中都能从这段文字里看出来,我还真是佩服你列!快点跟我解释哈子TO HAVE, TO HOLD,太深奥了,理解不了!
一楼的,写的象散文誓词样的,你应该到教堂去当神父的,专门负责主婚!不过写的还蛮好的,看你幸福的那个鬼样~
我也佩服2楼的同志 一眼被洞穿了呵呵
我去教堂当神父可以啊 但是他们不要女的撒 不然我就去主持你的婚礼哈哈哈哈
嘻嘻,在此被表扬了,好高兴呐!
cy
切~, 你还么得蛮好列,你就是碰运气猜到了而已!还真是给点阳光就灿烂!哈哈!
肯定要闷到笑哈子咧!
支持快乐男声09号陈楚生!
他是音乐才子,原创的歌曲很好听!
请给他投一票!
你个渣子,跑到我的BLOG上帮他做广告来了~ 帮你发短信还不够,BLOG还得用来帮他做广告,真是郁闷列~哈哈!
欠我的饭记得请啊,不管是在D国还是C国!YEAH!!!!!!!!
莫斯萨,还不子帮你增加一点人气!
这不叫广告!
如果从效果角度讲--这叫拉票!
如果从受益角度讲--这就叫分享!
你还真是个搞MARKETING的人列,早晓得当时要你帮我去卖点投影机的列,还省得我自己卖的累死人!
舍不得孩子套不着狼!鬼要你连请我7饭都舍不得,还要我帮你卖投影仪?
对了,那个广州的公司后来还找过你冒?
楼上的,我好象记得我请你吃饭了的列?你不会在胃里消化了,到记忆里也就遗忘了吧?我以后请你吃饭一点要全程跟踪拍摄,然后以后SHOW给你看!哼!
那个公司再毛联系我了,可能也是因为我美国的手机后来停机了的原因,但是直到现在我也觉得蛮奇怪,怎么这些怪事竟发生在我身上!
我算是服了你们了,在这里还可以这样不同时间段内聊天吵嘴搞的火热流的!
这跟我冒的关系,是有个勺人在这里MARKETING!^_^!这不是看到更有意思!
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